Monday, September 6, 2010

My eternal love celebrates her birthday today. Ok, well we celebrated it yesterday but since today is her birthday, the post goes up today.

Maxine,
There are so many reasons why I love you. More than I could ever properly articulate. I decided to forgo outlining the normal reasons that a husband loves his wife in this post. To do so would simply not be enough. I have never loved anything so completely and so thoroughly as I love you. I don't think anyone has. It borders on obsession.
Everything I do is for you. I try to make you laugh because your smile and your laugh light up my world. I try everyday to make you proud because yours is the only approval that matters to me. But more than anything else, I try to make you happy.
You have given me the best years of my life and I know that the best are yet to come.
No one can make me laugh like you do. No one makes me feel as important as you do. You give me the confidence to be me.
Over the years I have told you in different ways that without you I would be nothing. Either an addict or dead. You always down play it and try (unsuccessfully) to convince me that is has nothing to do with you. I know where I was headed and what has motivated me to become the person I am today. It is, and always has been, you. (No pressure, right?) You give me purpose. You give me everything. You are my motivation to get up in the morning, to do my job, to breathe.

I see how you interact with our children, your family, and Michael. I am so incredibly proud of the woman you have become. We were both so young when we met and it has been an interesting, exhilarating, and intense adventure so far. In the gazillion years to come, I look forward to the many, many more adventures we will share. My life began with you and will last forever as long as you are by my side.

You are an amazing woman. Your strength, beauty, and wisdom inspire me to be the best person I can. You make me proud every single day.You have more individual integrity than any person I have ever met. I love the fact that you simply cannot understand how people can lie or be deceitful.

This post is a feeble attempt to articulate my feelings. I am sorry that I cannot word it better and that I suck at expressing feelings and emotions.
I love you. I hope that all of your dreams come true.
Thank you for choosing me and making my life mean something.

3 comments:

  1. Why Arrrrr ya tryin to make me cry. I love you, my world, my sunshine, my some kind of wonderful.

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  2. AWWWW! How sweet. I think its funny that you apologize for not being able to articulate your feelings. They seem pretty articulated to me. Happy B-day Max!

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  3. I,ve heard Maxine takes after me....just kidding!!!!Any way Maxine is an absolutely wonderful, and kind person, and I think we are all blessed to know her and love her.At the same time she is blessed to have you, what's the saying"you complete me" I think the two of you do that for each other. That being said Happy Birthday Maxine ...We love you!!!!

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